What is Friendship.....A honest view..

This is a post by one of my friend...


Friendship.. a Word which everyone of us has heard of. We all have many Friends in our life. At every phase of life we make friends.
When we take birth and learn to walk and talk then we have friends of our age in our neighbor. In most cases our siblings are our friends. Then we go to school and there we make many friends. We count and compare with our other friends as to who has maximum number of friends. We feel happy.

Slowly as we grow we further make friends, some of our old friends are left behind and some remain with us. This process continues as we continue our journey and by the time where I am i.e. doing about to finish my PG course, end my classroom study life I have many friends right from childhood.

But now a question comes to my mind as to Who are FRIENDS???? What is FREINDSHIP????

Nice question but with not just one reply. The answer is very subjective.
For some people it is a great bond that can never be broken, for them friends are everything. For some as people say it is like a chewing gum, chew it and throw it (I don’t at all like this definition, but sometimes it is a fact).
No doubt friendship has many definitions which changes with our relation we share with various people around us. With some we are in close contact, with some we are in a formal contact that is alive till the time we are together at the work place.
But this is life…..
At times we consider someone as a very good friend, but the other person does not and this might be hurting also.
Here I would like to say that friendship is a matter of feelings and this feeling should be absolutely unconditional.
“Fate decides our Relatives and we Decide our Friends”. Relations may be conditional but friendship; it should be unconditional and like a free bird with no restrictions.

Hence in end I would like to say that try to have atleast one friend who is there with you to guide you, to help you, to give you a shoulder when you want to cry and bring a smile on your face, to be in times of joy and…. And…..Simply be there for you!!!!!